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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DW has been co sleeping with our 13 month old son since he was about 3 months old. They have a very close bond and she’s a fantastic mother.

But I miss my wife. I miss having evenings with her. Often times she or I will put him down in and then she goes to bed about an hour or two later. If we’re intimate, it’s only in the shower. I’d like to have another child one day and she’s intent on continuing to co sleep with BOTH kids. She child proofed the bedroom and bought a king sized bed and it’s on the floor with a frame that’s low to the ground. Our son had a custom Montessori floor bed in his room.

I tried to put our son down in his room alone last night and he went down just fine. He woke after about two hours crying and could not be consoled by me. It’s very clear my DW is the preferred parent and she was very distressed at the idea of not sleeping next to our DS.

Im concerned my wife and son are almost too attached to eachother. My wife is into the whole gamet: slings, wraps, Montessori preschools and attachment parenting. I’m not sure I buy into all of it but I play along. I just wish they could sleep apart for ONE night.  [/quote]

My stbx felt the way you do. 
I was almost like your DW.
I don’t want to blame anyone. For me it was clear that my spouse time was over and my child time began. I care around but it was too late. 
I understand your need, just as I understood my ex’s need. 
But I don’t regret anything (maybe because he is also a shitty father and a shitty husband).
If you are a good father and husband she is afraid to lose, you need to get serious that it’s either divorce or this. But you still have no guarantee. [/quote]

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