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[quote=Anonymous]7:27 here again.  I think it went on too long and cut me off.  The last thing I wanted to add is that yes, she is being self centered and all about herself and not a good friend.  And she probably knows it and hates herself for it.  I did.  Which then added to my depression.  The kindest thing you could do for her is to offer a continued friendship in whatever way she (and you) can handle.  If that is too painful for you, then she will probably get it and you will both move on.  I do not think she reacted well by not talking to you for a year (and I don't think I ever would have done that with anyone) but she clearly has issues-big ones.  Maybe not just the infertility at this point.  So, again, you do not need to give and give and get nothing in return and no one should expect that.  But, if there is something there that you think is worth salvaging then allow the friendship to be limited at this point and perhaps later (when she is done TTC, moved on etc) it can go back a little bit more to the friendship that it was.  Good luck.  And again, congratulations![/quote]

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