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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I would assume this is the VERY BEST he has to offer in terms of communication. If you cannot live with this, I really think you should call it quits and move on. I wish I had done that. I am now married to someone like this and no, it doesn't get better on the whole. He goes through periods where he is motivated (and occasionally when we were dating when he knew if it didn't I would break up). But he is who he is. I think most people with this communication pattern are not just procrastinators but avoidant. So not only will you see this in day-to-day planning, but when you two have something difficult happen, he is likely to be someone who withdraws and avoids. DH has redeeming qualities but the truth is this communication pattern is part of a bundle that if I'd really understood, I would have walked away. I was naive and thought in part that living together would bridge communication. No. You can stonewall with someone inches away from you.[/quote]
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