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[quote=Anonymous]I think 2.5-3y, maybe 4y max. If they are too close, the competitiveness can impede a close relationship. I've worked with with literally hundreds of kids 24/7 for months at a time and really think they need a bit of breathing room. I realize in my SO's case that his mother loves to triangulate and stir the pot but I see it in other siblings that are very close in age. Functionally, 18mo apart was no different than twins. It isn't something I wouldn't do but would make sure they get plenty of 1-1 time with us and time alone with their own friends. I think a lot of the issues with the ones who didn't have triangulation or favoritism dynamics came from being together constantly and shipped around together as a pair. [/quote]
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