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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn’t consider saying [b]“f*ck, why are we even fighting about this” or even “why the f*ck did you do x?” To be verbal abuse. It might be disrespectful, depending on what exactly you say. [/b]But not verbal abuse.

But it doesn’t matter if everyone on DCUM agrees that it’s not verbal abuse. It bothers your wife, so stop doing it. It seems like a minor thing to change, so why don’t you? As I said before, is this the hill you want to die on?

And no, I’m not perfect with my spouse, and change everything just because my spouse asked me to. But I try my best to honor his emotional land mines. If I know something sets him off or escalates a situation, I figure out a way not to do that. [/quote]

I agree with you.

Saying "eff off" is vastly different from the examples you give, however.  Your examples are "cursing during an argument," whereas saying "eff off" to (TO) your spouse during an argument is cursing *directed at your spouse*.  Not the same thing at all.[/quote]

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