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[quote=Anonymous]Mine does the same thing except only texting, no actual talking on the phone. He keeps all his electronics on lockdown so it's very difficult for me to prove anything, but he's pretty honest when I ask him directly who he's messaging with and what's being said. We've had conversations about inappropriate relationships with coworkers of the opposite sex. I got in over my head one time, about eight years ago. Even though he's now had several of these inappropriate relationships far more recently, he still uses my one transgression as leverage. (I didn't physically cheat, but close.)

There was one "friendship" he had, maybe a year ago, where I really had enough and told him it had to stop. They were getting together on the weekends, going out for a "late lunch" or some shit -- really over the line He stopped meeting up with her but I think they still occasionally text.

You should tell your husband you don't like it and find it disrespectful and beyond any reasonable boundaries. He may continue and just be more secretive, or he may see your point and dial it back. But it should be a whole conversation...about why he's engaging in this relationship, how he views it, and then how you view it and that you're no longer cool with it. These things only escalate.[/quote]

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