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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I were on a new job and I wanted to make it work, I would not be snarky. You need to think about how much your nanny is committed to the job when you are trying so hard. Are you ok with you giving 180% while she does 20% to make it work? After having nannies for 10 years (my kids are older now) my lesson learned was that I stepped up and done my job as a manager. She is the employee. I avoided a lot of difficult conversations and at the end, the person who paid for the lack of effort on the part of nannies was me and my family. [/quote] That you had “nannies” rather than one nanny for ten years is a bit troubling. For the welfare of your child, OP, take advice from parents who employed just one nanny for the duration. [/quote] DP. It's pretty rare to have the same nanny for 10 years. Stop being a sanctimonious jerk.[/quote] We have had the same nanny for nine years and my brother has had the same nanny for 15 years. My two closest friends both had just one nanny until their youngest started school. To have one employee for the duration of the job isn’t rare, PP. [/quote] Nannies have lives, too. If they decide to go back to school, change careers or move for a relationship, it doesn’t make their employer the problem. [/quote]
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