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[quote=Anonymous]Is your husband white? I can see why she wouldn’t want a white man bossing her around and disrespecting her (her view). You will have to let her know that you’re not going to take sides, that you don’t want her just coming into your house during the pandemic, and that she and your DH have different cultural expectations and they’ll never fully meet at a place both can be happy. Reiterate that you live her and she’s your mother, but he’s your husband. Tell her that you aren’t in danger and don’t want her trying to poison you [find a more tactful phrase] against your husband and the father of your children. I agree with PP who said the most alarming thing is her going to 5 stores then coming to your house. [/quote]
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