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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been dating a guy for about three months. All is well.....for the most part.

The one weird thing is that a couple times he's mentioned the 'humans aren't meant to be monogamous' thing. I think he could tell it threw me off because he followed with "but *I* have no problem being committed". I have no issue with non-monogamy, but it's not for me

We haven't really had any exclusivity talks- the one time I brought it up he responded with something like "I'm investing my time in you" which kinda struck me as someone trying to get out of actually committing.

The whole thing just seems weird. Why mention you don't think people are monogamous unless you don't want to be monogamous? I sort of feel like I'm being groomed or set up to eventually hear that he wants to practice non-monogamy.

My gut's telling me that something's off and I should bail or at least distance myself.

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start seeing other people, he sounds like a piece of work, not honest and, as you said, not exclusive. [/quote]

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