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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Folks, some people are low-sex, asexual. If there's a cognitive/emotional challenge (eg history of abuse) behind the aversion or sexual distancing, I think that's where a highly skilled mental health professional should be engaged. Even so--a person won't change unless they want to change. [/quote] Agree with this. Chasing sex with a person like this can be very frustrating and challenging. Navigating it is tough and while a therapist can help, it will be an uphill battle. As an aside, with a person like this as your spouse, seems like the stars have to align in order to have sex. God forbid you do ANYTHING that might threaten it and the whole thing is blown. That's what it's like with my spouse - here I am thnking things are going great, we're communicating, she's being loving, etc., and then I do somethiing that she scolds me on and her mood is basically gone and her other 123098213 priorities take precedent.[/quote]
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