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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. Yes. Two girls in elementary school. They are low maintenance and low stress (knock on wood). [/quote]

Since you initiated this thread, I have some quesitons:

1) is your DH depressed?
2) you mention he's active/good looking/etc., any chance he is emotionally attached to someone else?
3) I'd say medical issues but given your OP, I'd say probably not
4) During your marriage, have you ever been this sexless or has it always been an issue just really magnified now?[/quote]

OP here:

1) is your DH depressed?  Not depressed but I think he has anxiety that is heightened with this COVID situation.  
2) you mention he's active/good looking/etc., any chance he is emotionally attached to someone else?  I don't think there's anyone else. I think he's in this ridiculous cocoon of thinking that sex isn't important in a relationship.  I should be "glad" that he doesn't just look at me as a sex object.  *insert eyeroll here*
3) I'd say medical issues but given your OP, I'd say probably not
4) During your marriage, have you ever been this sexless or has it always been an issue just really magnified now?  [b]Yes, there have been multiple periods of sexless times before, which is ridiculous since we haven't even been married that long.  He always finds a reason NOT to be interested.[/b] [/quote]

I am OP from the Love Languages thread.  It might be that your DH's love language is certainly not physical touch OR/and he may be bordering on asexual.  I believe my DW is asexual but we have other nuances that can be contributing to a dead bedroom.  Best of luck.,[/quote]

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