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Reply to "I'm afraid I've seriously damaged my children's lives - need perspective "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you want us to tell you? That you're a bad father who abandoned his kids to please his wife? You already know this. "My wife is manipulative, she persuaded me, she told me, blah blah blah". Is nothing every your fault? You allowed it to happen and are allowing it to continue. Stop blaming it on your wife. Own it. Now what? [/quote] I'm seeking perspective - desperately. I'm essentially a shut-in and have no one to talk to about these things but am starting to feel like I made a GIANT error. It's just so confusing because while all this is happening she'll spend hours researching how to support my health and figuring out protocols to keep me going. In that sense she is incredibly caring and supportive and she knew I had issues when we met. [/quote] That’s not love. That’s codependency. [/quote]
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