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Reply to "friend making choices not aligned with my values - how to let it not poison our relationship?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I understand this scenario, I really do. I too tried the ignore, compartmentalize, live and let live, etc approach for a long time. Something still nagged. Couldnt put my finger on it. And then, I realized: Because of her choices/values, I don't trust her. And while she has a lot to offer, that mistrust is what clouded everything, even the good. But that realization was helpful. Because I felt guilty and conflicted about cutting off a relationship with someone where there'd been good times and we did had much in common. But I didn't feel guilty about walking away from someone I didn't trust. I realized it was the reverse; I'd be foolish to stay in a relationship with someone I didn't trust. [/quote]
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