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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to either be willing to do anything to get out of financial ruin or quit complaining about it. File bankruptcy if you are so far gone. Try to get your IRS debt negotiated down. There are lawyers out there that can help with this. Sounds like drugs and alcohol played a major role in where you are today. Also, look for a new line of work. You can reinvent yourself any age. Where there is a will there is a way.[/quote]

Bankruptcy immediately ends my employment.

Can't really afford a tax lawyer right now, although I will likely regret saying that.

Drugs and alcohol played no role at all.  Just bad luck with my health and increasingly poor decision making.

I have spent months trying to reinvent myself but I cannot think of anything as lucrative, and now I live in a remote area and generally work from home.  I feel boxed in and effed. [/quote]

Are you self-employed/an independent contractor? If not and you work for a company--Does your employer have an EAP (Employee Assistance Program)? If your employer has an HR department or even just one HR person, ask if there is an EAP. If so, contact the EAP. They can possibly connect you with both personal counseling and financial counseling too. Please do not wait.[/quote]

Unfortunately there is no EAP.  Small professional services group.

I feel like all of this is hopeless until we get evicted and I throw what I can into a U-Haul and leave. [/quote]

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