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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s clear this will not be a few weeks, but months now that schools are closed through the end of the year. We’ve been hesitant to travel North to stay with family because grandparents are in the high risk group due to age. We have 2 kids (15mos, 4yo) and both work FT. It’s not sustainable to have flexible hours and both kids home for months. Our employers are being great right now but it won’t last forever. How are others handling the decision to sink or swim? The drive to family is 8hrs which we could do overnight to minimize our stops since the kids will sleep. I’m worried about the risk of traveling and I’m worried about how to make it work without any help. Our rationale for family help vs hiring help here is that we would all stay put at the family members house vs hiring a nanny who would be at free will after being in our home or whom lives with others who cannot or are not staying home. We don’t have a home that’s set up to support an au pair situation. Pros and cons either way?[/quote] So you're willing to risk the lives of your parents for your selfish means?! You stay home and if you or your husband needs to quit your job to take care of your responsibility, YOUR CHILDREN, then this is what you do. Unbelievable! Murder your parents to keep your jobs. Aren't you a POS![/quote] Lol, dramatic much? Sounds like you’re jealous that OP has parents willing to help. You’re like all those posters who call mothers of newborns a lazy POS for wanting help.[/quote]
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