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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP,

What about custody? I'd speak to a lawyer! [/quote]

This.  What is the legal status of your marriage?  Have you officially separated and filed those papers with the court?  How far away are divorce proceedings?  It might seem completely innocent to go out for dinner with another guy knowing that you and your husband won't be reconciling, but if nothing is set legally, you could be jeopardizing custody.

If you are in the clear legally, go for it![/quote]

Going out for coffee will not jeopardize her custody. In the DMV if she has an adulterous relationship then her ex could get a fault divorce and what does that entitle him to 50% custody- same as he had before she slept with him.....but NOTE she just wanted to have a coffee.  [/quote]

I hear you, but I also watched my aunt's divorce proceedings not too long ago (in Kansas, so I know it's a very different state when it comes to divorce).  She and her husband decided to split.  He was military and was about to go on active duty out of the country, so they put off the divorce until he got back.  He went oversees and she, knowing their marriage was over, went out on a few dates during the course of the year he was gone.  She didn't realize her husband was having her followed and photographed.   When he got back, he not got a fault divorce but almost full custody because she was leaving the kids (with a friend) to carry out her affairs (even though she wasn't sleeping with anyone) while he was patriotically serving his country.  He had a better attorney and it completely caught her off guard.

So as I said, check with your attorney and make sure it's okay, better safe than sorry.  If you're in the clear, have tons of fun![/quote]

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