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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you love your wife?[/quote] I think the cheater may be a woman.[/quote] You could be right. OP, do you love your spouse?[/quote] Yes, in a familial way. Emotional intimacy was absent from our marriage for a long time and I found that with someone else. I am not sure I can have that same depth of connection with my spouse. I am going to try but I have to admit right now my heart is with the affair partner. My spouse treated me very poorly for a number of years so there is a lot of resentment too.[/quote] So a couple of things: Your connection with the AP could be your reflection of what you want on the AP and may not be grounded in reality. Also, your current view of marriage is also through the lens of affair and so you could be re-writing some of that. In other words, you need some time, distance and self-reflection before taking big steps. [/quote]
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