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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for the perspective—it helps!  As for the draw, I want more than anything to snuggle the baby from my baby.  I know it’s not logical.  I wasn’t even a baby person 30+ years ago when my kids were little.  :D But there’s something about seeing my own child raise his or her own child that is awe-inspiring.  I don’t think I can put it into words (clearly).[/quote]
I'm the pushing 50 PP... I hear ya.  I can't wait to hold my grandbaby in my arms one day (I hope), and then give the baby back to my kids when the baby gets fussy.  See.. that's the thing... as grandparents, we don't have to deal with the hard part of parenting. We just want the lovely part of holding a sweet baby in our arms.  But our children have to deal with the 24/7 stress of raising children.  I don't want to put that on them if they are not ready just for my own selfish reasons.  But yes, it would be amazing to see my children be parents one day.[/quote]

But OP wants to watch the babies part time which means more than just handing the baby back. I guess I’m not at the stage of being a grandma but I don’t see the point of raising kids and then wanting to spend retirement raising kids again? [/quote]

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