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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I still don't understand your problem. Other people manage. Many manage without a spouse present. Without help. What are these big problems of yours?[/quote] Are you asking for a list of my tasks? It's not as though I am the first person, woman/wife in particular, to have this issue with their spouse. But hey, you win, I admit to not being able manage doing 95% of the household, childcare, pet care, scheduling, mental, emotional, and physical needs of our family while also working. I've spent 8+ years expressing this, to no avail. I've reached the near-end point of being able to tolerate this dynamic, and have been looking for solutions so that we don't split up. I am the one initiating these conversations about our relationship, reading and making suggestions, trying to find therapy -- yet other things on my plate. DH does not seem as open to these things as I had hoped and so, as my OP describes, I feel hopeless that our marriage will last. [/quote]
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