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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, why are you hiring help? What exactly is the problem? Just doing more than your share --- that's not enough information. It's not believable, not believable that would tear apart a marriage.[/quote] Not sure why it's not believable. I do have some help -- we have a reliable babysitter we use and have used for date nights, overnights, weekend trips. I have been looking for an after school sitter for over a month to no avail (kids are currently in an after school extended day program). We have cleaners who come every two weeks. We have a dog sitter who takes our dogs to and from doggie daycare every day so they get worn out. What other help can/should I get? An au pair seems excessive -- my understanding is you need to provide 30-40 hours for them to work and the kids are both in school full time. A nanny (part-time?) and then that person would do errands and things around the house while the kids are in school?[/quote]
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