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[quote=Anonymous]I am sorry to hear this, OP. I had a similar realization a few years ago. One thing that helped was that I realized that when I became very emotional, I would start crying. The sight of a tear would instantly send DH into panic mode, andhe really wasn’t able to take in an understand new information. All he could think about was how to get me to stop crying. So, I would feel that we had a very deep conversation where I had explained “y” to him, and he would remember none of it. So the next time “y” happened, I was even more upset than before, and he was completely baffled and twice as defensive. It really led to this feeling that he didn’t love or care about me at all. [/quote]
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