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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So sorry. You're doing the right thing for all the reasons others stated. The two that would be important to me are his decision for no custody. Putting a cigarette in baby's hand and taking pics, drinking while caring for baby, screaming and throwing things are terrible. Add to this that he comes from an abusive background. You don't want the pattern to repeat in child. If you continue to expose baby to this you're setting yourself up for a long and difficult journey as a new mom. Who knows if there's mental illness on husband's side. Trust your gut. Take advantage of no custody and get a lawyer now. You will control visitation as you see fit and only after he treats his ADD and rehabs the alcohol addiction (he's a bad drunk, OP). Make this part legal and you won't need to worry about your kids safety or a stepmom. Wishing you peace soon.[/quote] This. [/quote]
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