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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op you're acting like a martyr.  Your posts are so over the top and you have these ridiculous expectations.  You've torn apart your DH but are you perfect all the time?  Are you never tired and slightly checked out?   You're martyring yourself to be this perfect mom with a perfect little family but you're going to end up ruining it because your marriage is going to be a mess.

Take a step back.  Let the kids play by themselves a little bit.  Start paying attention to what good stuff your dH does do.  Start taking time for each other.   [/quote]

OP here. I am not perfect at all. I am not very patient and lose my temper more often than I should. This is also why I think this is happening. I am not being a good  mom because I am also tired and would love to do nothing and check out for a while. I am not proud of myself and I want to do and be better, but I need DH to help more. It would be great if my DH took on a little more.[/quote]

Everyone needs to check out now and then.  Seriously, you're setting both you and your DH up for failure by trying to do everything and be a perfect little family.  Sit down with your DH and figure out what you can drop and where you can build in time off for both of you.  And yes, it does sound like you could benefit from therapy.  The more you post the worse I feel for your DH. [/quote]

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