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[quote=Anonymous]We designated my sister (married, childless so far, not local) with the understanding that it might make sense for DD to stay with DH's parents to finish out a school year or even two. DH's parents are local and pretty healthy, and also would have control of the trust. We have a couple local friends who I feel would be as good or better as guardians, but I don't yet feel we're close enough to ask. I could see redoing our paperwork at some point in the future. Somebody advised me not to look for ideal guardians -- the ideal guardians are me and DH. If we aren't available then any safe and loving situation is better than letting the courts figure it out. I don't like DH's siblings but I would designate them if we had no one else.[/quote]
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