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[quote=Anonymous]We thought long and hard about it, and debated several family members. None would be ideal in terms of high educational expectations or automatically making the same choices for them that we would. We settled on DH’s sister, since she is fairly close to the grandparents, who could also lend a hand. As time goes on and the kids get older, anxiety about this possibility dissipates. We have trusts in place, have modeled academic expectations and our own values long enough for them to be somewhat ingrained, and the kids aren’t so young that a guardian would be their only childhood role model if we were to die.[/quote]
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