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[quote=Anonymous]Just cancel your plans with your friend, op. Be careful of adults that insist that another adult do anything.  Be even more careful if you think you can't say no. This situation didn't require a post to resolve, and the fact that you think it did speaks volumes.

Finally, know that your friend probably knows or suspects what happened. Most adults only have a falling out over money or sex, either they had sex, they didn't have sex when one or both of them wanted to, they wanted or want to have sex, or one of the pair didn't think the other adult should have sex with someone else or anybody else for that matter.

Your first duty is to protect your husband, yourself and your marriage. Simply cancel any plans, though also know there are very very few secrets, and if your friend insists on anything while also talking endlessly about a friend to the point of making his/her friend's spouse uncomfortable, (who does this anyway unless they want to start trouble?) this friend is no friend at all. Platonic friends can f**ck up marriages just as badly if not more so then affair partners.  It sounds like you may have just such a person in your life.   [/quote]

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