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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Constructive advice...be straight up about it and say “I don’t wanna get together with So-and-So my husband and I can’t stand him.”[/quote]

This or move your trip. Anything else and your friend will still try and facilitate a meet up. [/quote]

I would not rearrange travel over this. Just draw a boundary with your time, and don’t feel guilty about respecting it. It ain’t that serious. This person shouldn’t cost any more tome, money, or effort than they already have.[/quote]

[b]I think this depends on how much you care about potentially avoiding being asked why you don’t want to see them. I don’t think this is a boundary thing. Maybe OP is trying to protect her spouse from gossip mill. Not so cut and dry to me. [/b][b]If I had friends that were suddenly not talking, it would come up again at some point. Maybe years in the future, but doubt it will just be accepted as a matter of fact and never questioned or thought of again.[/b] [/quote]

+1[/quote]

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