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[quote=Anonymous]If you’re not going to say what event(s) or behavior(s) he’s upset, angry or contemptuous about, then just quit. You don’t want to name it then you’re already quitting. Either talk about the underlying issues and make a plan to fix it and then do so... or quit. I would always lose track of time getting the kids ready and it drove my husband nuts. And caused him or I to be late. He got angry every so often about it. Did I turn around and play the victim of his anger. Yes, for a year I did. What a jerk, getting angry at me, how dare he! But then I got some executive functioning coaching and got methods to keep track of time better and role model it for the kids. No more issues about lateness, no more getting angry at me! Do what you can in your power and control before blaming others for your shortcomings. [/quote]
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