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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Try to wait one year, my uncle was remarried within 1 year , my mom was really pissed[/quote] My FIL was married within a year too. I was very surprised because he’d had a long happy marriage, but people do strange things. [/quote] You have to realize men marry quickly b/c they loved and depended on their wives so much. Kids have to realize that if they don’t date, it’s likely the widowers health will decline. As for widows, men really don’t care; I’ve told my wife and kids I am happy and honestly hope she remarried if I die first. Kids know this, wife knows this. I’m gone and the most important thing in my life was my wife’s and my kids happiness — if someone can support them in my absence why would that bother me? We can all form a happy commune in heaven. [/quote] Grief is a process that takes time to get through. The idea of a parent dating can be difficult for any teenager to accept, but it’s even harder when they’re still raw from dealing with the other parent’s recent death. It’s not about the dead person’s feelings, it’s about the feelings of the living people. [/quote]
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