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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, so many judgemental people in this thread who know what another person should do. When my spouse passed, the love of my life, I was with another partner 2 months later. We are still together years later and very happy. If I'd applied the "rules" that some of you wa t to impose on a grieving spouse, I'd have missed my opportunity for true happiness with this person. You can be happy with a new relationship and still grieve. If any of my family had a problem with that, and I've never heard anything but it's very possible, that's for them to deal with. Don't lay your judgemental BS on me. [/quote] It is always dependent on the details. I agree that an adult should be free to move on when they are ready. In some cases, like the elderly with dementia, the spouse has emotionally moved on years before their partner dies. In your case, you were strong enough to stand up to your family - did that include your children?[/quote]
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