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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You knew you were with a man-child before you married him, but you convinced yourself that you had to become a wife and mother as soon as possible. You hoped he would change, even though deep down you knew he wouldn't. Following the life script of domesticity ("wedded bliss," "you'll never know real love until you have children of your own.") Or living the life you really want. You can't have it both ways. [/quote]

I wish posters would stop with the.....well, you knew this before marrying him/her.  That is not true in most cases.  It takes people awhile to show their day to day faults, tempers, laziness, insecurities, etc.  Stop saying that.  It’s no help whatsoever.....just blaming the OP.[/quote]

I agree! (New poster)
It is so easy to take care of a household of 2 adults. H was moderately helpful, I enjoyed doing what I was doing, I thought we had it figured out.
Ultimately I don’t think there is a way to radically transform a person once the roles are established after kids. It’s cost benefit analysis all the way. Ultimately there were more costs than benefits from my ex (heck, the only benefit was his income which he let me have less and less say in spending - so divorce ultimately made sense for me.
I would run a basic CBA. I have a friend who complains about her H but she does not realize he does a ton of drop offs and pickups.

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