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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"...apparently picked DC up by his pajama shirt" Facts first and words matter - did your DH ACTUALLY pick him up by the shirt or are you GUESSING he did? Did you see him do it? If not, is it possible he could done something much less aggressive like tugged him by the shirt to lead him over to the bed? The quote from your husband (again, are these his exact words?) is disturbing - he should not talk to you that way. It is also an indicator that he may feel you are calling his parenting into question. Especially your comment about how he would have claimed you undermined him, so you didn't do it. Thus, you know he feels you criticize him. I think you and DH need to sit down and talk about your parenting styles, and in order to air your grievances. IMO, there are hints here that you are helicoptering your child. Op here. I heard DH say, “why are you crying? You didn’t like that I lifted you by your shirt?” [/quote][/quote]
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