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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: He’s 40, i’m 38. We are both divorced with kids. The house he owns is not big enough for all of us. The house that I rent is big enough.

To be clear, I’m not asking him to sell. But i want to work on the goal of building OUR life together, which in my opinion means sharing expenses, buying our own home together, etc etc. I’m just asking him to rent his home out, and move in together. But he’s reluctant and says I’m pressuring him, and that he already stays at my place everyday, so why isn’t that enough.[/quote]

There are kids involved and you are divorced. I get it now. I’m Team BF. Better not to rush.

Do your kids get along?

Are you the same poster who said your kids just met for first time and are planning to go together away for spring break.

Ugh I’m beginning to be one of those people who can recognize similar posts.[/quote]

I don’t want to rush him but it’s been 3.5 years...that’s rushing things?

Our kids get along. He has a daughter but she lives with her mom during the school year.

And no, I’m not that poster with the spring break situation. Our kids have met multiple times and everyone gets along well.[/quote]

You are not just asking him to move in together. You are basically asking him to father your THREE children.

I have 3 kids and our house is chaotic. Lots of fighting. It is a mess. I am always trying to get my kids to help clean up, do dishes or start a load of laundry. I can’t imagine another person’s children in my small house.

AND he has a daughter. You are trying to move in 3 teen/preteen boys with his 1 daughter.[/quote]

His daughter is only with him in the summer and on school breaks/holidays. I split custody 50/50 with my ex, so I have my kids every other week. They are older and pretty self-reliant, which does make a difference.[/quote]

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