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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I have been together for 15 years and have 3 amazing kids. We have a high HHI, beautiful home, savings, etc. we are stable. However, we have kind of just drifted apart. There is no abuse. I can’t say we are happily married. We just turned 40 and still fit and attractive. I’m not very attracted to DH physically or emotionally. DH is a hands on father and helps around the house so it isn’t like I’m resentful of him. I feel like I fell out of love and we are just coparenting. I know I have it better than many but still not happily married.[/quote]

My wife would write the exact thing, and I would echo her to some degree.  On the outside, we are the fun, happy and energetic couple.  On the inside, it's dead, intimacy is gone.  I still love and respect her but if we weren't married with children I would imagine we would break up amicably.

And we were very happy and loving at some point, lots of laughs and sex and travel and the dream.  Now we "have it all" and yet she is deeply unhappy.  No idea if she leaves but if she does I will be fine.[/quote]

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