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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

We spent a great time on our date and we had lots of banter. I find it very easy to have conversations with him and I can be myself 100% around him. I feel very comfortable in his presence.

But I can’t bring myself to be physical with him. I just don’t want to go down that route. I feel repulsed by the thought. He’s not bad looking or anything. I just can’t picture myself initiating anything physical with him.

Part of me wants to text him to part ways but I don’t know if I’ll regret doing this.[/quote]

I'm a PP who advised that you want SOME physical chemistry, and I've been in your exact spot a couple times. In these situations I sent a text along the lines of "I had a lot of fun and you're an impressive guy, but I just didn't feel the type of connection I'm looking for." Small sample size but I got a kind response in these cases.

You need to trust your own gut and preferences, too. Your future husband will not repulse you. You might not feel like ripping his clothes off immediately, but you should be happy to get close to the guy. Gotta start somewhere! [/quote]

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