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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whats wrong with a playhouse if you have a big yard?[/quote]

OP is greedy and just wants cash.  She doesn't want the grandparents to get credit and wants to take credit for buying the gift with their cash.[/quote]

Wow, project much?

I was fine with the kids getting a few smaller  things, and then if she wants to do cash alive whatever few items they requested it goes into a 529 and they can spend a small amount of it to buy something themselves. I don’t want a playhouse because the 7 year old would be too big for it, and honestly we’re not home enough to use it. On the weekends only, maybe.

I don’t give a shit about “credit”. My kids can’t even remember who gave them what the very next day. They really just didn’t ask for much. No big gifts like Nintendo or iPads or whatever. Everything they wanted was under $60 and honestly I’m okay with that because I don’t really want to encourage wanting of “things,” which Christmas seems to do no matter our best intentions.

[b]My SIL never hesitated to ask the grandparents for the big things because they will only spend probably $40 of their own money on their chosen and rely in the grandparents for the big gifts. I don’t really care what they do with their money, but I guess grandma is afraid our kids will feel slighted.[/quote][/b]

NP How do you know it is because SIL asked?  Pehaps MIL asked her and wanted to give a big present to her kids the same way she wants to treat your kids?  Isn't it nice that MIL wants to treat her grandchildren equally?  Why does it seem from your post that this is a negative not a positive? I would work on your Christmas spirit, op![/quote]

Ha real Christmas spirit is in tact.... it’s all the commercial spirit that’s weak. lol

I know my SIL asked for those things because she told me. Grandma just says “send us a list” and our list is usually books, clothes and a few toys, theirs is usually the big items they want to buy their kids. [/quote]

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