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Reply to "DH won’t dry off in the bathroom (wet carpet)"
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[quote=Anonymous]For this issue - you need to put your shoes and socks on at the same time. So, you're either barefoot or you're wearing shoes in the morning, no stepping on wet carpet, problem solved. The broader issue - that he never adjusts things for you, it's always you adjusting for him - THAT requires more digging. The snoring, for example. That's a hill I would die on. Changing your shoe/sock habits might be a good opener here for you. "I've changed things for you, like my dish habits. You've been unwilling to changing things for me, like your shower habits, so I changed to adjust around it. It feels like I'm giving a lot in this marriage, and you're not, and that doesn't strike me as fair. The snoring is a great example - this is a problem that you need to solve, and it could be effecting your health so you need to see a doctor. Are you willing to do that for me?" Then listen to what he says. [/quote]
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