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[quote=Anonymous]There's pros & cons for having only & more kids. I stretched my limits to have 2, and my 1st child is SN kid. Having 2 kids, the tradeoffs are I risk having my 2nd child is also SN, less savings/more expenses, tension of family relationship, hectic schedules struggling with 2 kids, no vacations, and it also hit badly on my health with 2nd pregnancy (this one was unexpected). I don't regret having 2nd kid but sometimes I also am jealous of family having only 1 kid or 0 kid and they can do/live/travel/spend whatever they want. I think it would always get better once both kids are older & more independent. Right now, I am struggling with 2 kids under 3 every day, between work/daycare/meal time etc. It is tough but I love to see their smiles. They don't really play together yet, but baby is always hyper excited when she sees the older sibling playing with/sitting around her. [/quote]
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