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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My fiancé and I are panning our wedding and can't agree on how big or small to have it. We are paying for it ourselves, but most of the money is from his savings. I really want a small wedding, but he thinks we should have a big wedding. My immediate family alone is 20 people. I think 50 friends and family is enough but he wants closer to 100. I feel like I already have everything I want and would rather use most of our savings for a down payment on a home. He thinks we can do both or just stay in his condo until we save up for a down payment. I feel like I got the ring of my dreams ( which I know was expensive) and I don't care about a big wedding. How can we compromise or decide? [/quote]

Does he know who these other people are?  Actual friends or maybe work colleagues?  There isn’t going to be a huge difference between 75 and 100.  If you invite 100, probably only 75 will actually attend.  It’s inevitable.

Also please don’t listen to the nasty poster about his money/his rules.  It’s a partnership.  Congratulations and have a lovely day.[/quote]

But so far it's been all what OP wants. [/quote]

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