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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel traumatized just reading about what a pig your dad is. Why do you have any contact with him? You mention him being a grandpa. My mom had a father like this who ran around on her mom and then abandoned the family in the middle of winter. They got evicted and had to stay in a homeless shelter with a newborn. I’ve never met that pig of a man because my mom protected us. [/quote]

OP, how can you say, I love my mom and my Dad didn't do this to me so I'm fine with her. He did that TO YOUR MOM. You are stabbing her again by saying it's okay with you, not your problem. When people hurt those I love, it makes me mad. It's not okay with me. She's lost her husband AND you.[/quote]

WTF? That is her Father you are talking about. She couldn't stop loving him if she wanted to. Good thing she doesn't have to because she was able to let him know how his infidelity diminished him in her eyes. He obviously loves his children. They have the rest of their lives to rebuild their relationship and he is a grandfather to her kids.
Being bitter will serve no one. Time to move on.[/quote]

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