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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another..how old? Pretty sure my mom is early stage dementia and I cannot get her an eval even though I had her own doctos push for it. It can make their anxiety crazy and it can make them irritable and mean. I no longer expect any emotional support from my mom and my only goal is to keep her from anxiety or anger outbursts. So, if I were having sinus surgery I would be matter of fact about it. If she lectured me, I'd say "thanks for your input. I got 2 opinions from top rated doctors and this is what I need to do" and then I would change the topic. If she obsessed, I would calmly make an excuse to get off the phone.

You know how young children cannot regulate their emotions so we adults have to stay calm and keep things in check? It's the same with dementia, but also mental illness including personality issues. You set boundaries, stay calm, distract when needed and step back as needed. You would not expect a small child to be your support, so don't expect it from your mom at this point.[/quote]

Same poster...forgot to mention, there may be a tiny bit of truth to what your mom says. Some doctors are quick to recommend surgery. I have had it recommended for various issues. My back is doing well thanks to PT, no surgery needed. Sinus polyps went away when I used special spray and stopped dairy for a while. I could go on. It is worth it to get at least one more opinion and ask around.[/quote][/quote]

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