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[quote=Anonymous]I'm going through my own right now, probably triggered by my own work in therapy. I'm not blowing up anything, I haven't abandoned my family. But I am making more demands and I'm becoming selfish for the first time in a decade (in a healthy way, I hope). I'm (so far) making healthy choices -- making and keeping all of my health appointments, losing weight and getting fit, exploring interesting hobbies, being more social and going out with friends, pursuing intellectual and creative interests, telling my kids and DH no sometimes, putting myself first for the first time in a decade. No one is being neglected, chores still done, kids still cared for. Just putting myself first. My DH is being really supportive. I've been there for him thru his own crises. I'm angry and sad but I'm not taking it out on anybody. I'm talking it out in therapy. For everyone else going thru this, or with someone going thru this, please hang in there. [/quote]
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