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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, but what you will find on the dating apps are a bunch men in "ethically nonmonogamous" relationships which basically means they are cheating on their wives but want to convince you that they have open marriages. [/quote]

I'm sure some are cheating. But then why would they have to mention that they're ethically non-monogamous? If they're going to cheat, no point telling anyone that you're married or in a relationship. Seems counter productive.

I'm in a ethically non-monogamous relationship. I have it listed on my profile. Anyone that I talk to, I offer verification. You can speak to or meet my spouse if you're interested.

And it's not just men who are in ENM relationships. There are plenty of women on Bumble, Tinder etc who also are in ENM's and open relationships and they are upfront about it. In fact, OK Cupid actually has a section for people who are non-monogamous and seeking the same.

Plenty of people who are looking for 'traditional' relationship as well. I just don't bother reaching out to them because it's a waste of my and their time.[/quote]

[b]Lots of guys are into this so they can get some action on the side, say they are into kink, and have their affair partner believe that they are in a kinky "relationship."

My friend who gets involved with these dudes falls for it every time; has the guy live with her, pays his living expenses, he moves his spouse in, he saves lots of money and waits until he and his wife can afford a better place to live, dumps my friend. Then she gets the next guy who does something similar. One guy was balancing about 3 different women, living with each one for part of the week and saving money.[/b] [/quote]

How old is your friend and what app is she on? I need to meet this sugar mama LOL[/quote]

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