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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ignore, back away from all of them.  If she makes $250, she is very comfortable and probably also gets child support.  She needs to manage the money better.[/quote]

Cant. Tried it. MIL expects DH to always help as family is family no matter what was said or done by SIL. They always have excuses but I have reached my breaking point. I honestly will have a nervous breakdown one of these days. There is no pleasing them, nothing is enough. [/quote]

So what if she expects it?  Does DH go along with everything MIL wants?  If so, couples counseling stat.  [/quote]

He is starting to pull back now but MIL keeps trying to make him feel sorry for SIL so he helps her out[/quote]

You need to be the squeakier wheel than MIL.  Tell DH that you want him to stop enabling his sister, that is putting strain on you both and you are emotionally drained by it, and hold firm.  This is a DH problem not a MIL or SIL problem.[/quote]

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