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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here. Let him know the weight is leading to less passion and desire for sex.

Give him a number, a target weight, and hold out the promise of something special if he reaches and maintains it.

Chances are he'll be motivated to hit it.[/quote]

Hopefully it's that simple. But if you set it up in his mind the contract "I lose the weight and she will give me enthusiastic sex whenever I want" then you'd better be prepared to follow through.

Many men have had this goalpost-moving experience:
Her: "We'd have more sex if you'd just do X."
Him: (goes and does X) "Can we have sex now?"
Her: "We'd have more sex if you'd just do Y."
Him: (goes and does Y) "Can we have sex now?"
Her: "We'd have more sex if you'd just do Z."
Him: (sighs) "I give up."

Later, she goes on DCUM and complains about her husband not wanting sex, and the responses assure her that he must be gay and is probably having an affair.[/quote]

This is exactly it. As you’re together longer sex will get less exciting in general. If you tell him if he loses weight there will be a lot of sex you better be prepared to put your money where your mouth is. Also never give someone a number. Muscle mass etc. can affect that.[/quote]

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