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Reply to "DH with anxiety uses me as his crutch"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is better than how my overworked anxious, inattentive husband deals with his stress: raging and yelling at people in the House for asking anything of him.[/quote] No, it isn't; they are both dynamics that are bad. And both of you should present your husbands with two envelopes - one with a list of therapists and one with a list of divorce lawyers, and tell them to pick one. It is okay to ask you for support when they are doing everything they can to ameliorate the problem - therapy, medication, retreats in the woods, whatever. It is not okay to expect you to prop them up while they let their illness run wild. They need to help themselves if they want help from you. You are the spouse, not the doctor.[/quote]
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