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[quote=Anonymous]All of you people saying "red flag" and "omg he's horrible", first of all, what do you want her to do? Leave her husband while she has seven week old twins? She's asking for constructive help. Telling her that he sucks isn't helpful. Secondly, people are allowed to have a difficult adjustment to parenthood. He's helping out physically. He's doing night feeds. He's not refusing to help, he's having trouble coping. That's allowed. No one is expected to get everything right all the time. If the shoes were reversed and she was having these thoughts I would hope her husband would be compassionate and help her through it like she's trying to do for him. Op, therapy, meds (if needed) and time. It will get better. This happens to so so so many people. Ignore the posters who apparently only experienced sunshine and rainbows from day 1. [/quote]
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