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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you feel like you’re able to fully give your time to each? I feel like I have just enough to give my 3, but we have a frozen embryo that I can’t sign off on destroying or giving away. I wouldn’t mind having a 4th, except for feeling like it was taking away something from the others. If it matters, they’re currently 10, 7, and just turned 4 and I’m a SAHM.[/quote] I have 3 and WOHM full time, as does DH. I don't know what it means to "fully give your time," but we probably don't do it. My parents had two kids, and I'm pretty sure they didn't do that either. But I had a happy childhood and my kids appear to be doing well too. If you're doing well with 3 and you and your husband both genuinely want a 4th, then your 4 kids will probably do just fine. But don't feel obligated to have a 4th just to salvage a frozen embryo.[/quote]
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