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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All normal. When I was 23, my bf (who I had been with since 16) was killed by a drunk driver. 4 months is nothing for grief. If recommend you see a counselor, it helps tremendously! About a year later I was finally ready to have sex with someone else (I had gone on dates here and there before), and I cried after. The grief just came back in this huge wave. Thankfully the guy was so understanding and is my now DH. You'll be surprised how the grief comes. Anger can be a big part of it too. I hope you find some support group or therapist, it can really help. [/quote] You married the first guy you slept with after losing your first love? Dang...[/quote] Yup! No regrets and we've been together for about 15 years. How he acted after and how he treated me showed me what an amazing partner he would be. And I was right. [/quote]
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