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[quote=Anonymous]This would drive me crazy. If it was say, $1000/yr total, I wouldn’t mind but it sounds like it is much more frequent than that, and adding up to a lot?

If it were my DH, I’d sit him down and have a talk. I’d ask him to either (1) STOP  fronting $$ this way- EVER (2) follow through on recouping costs, or (3) the $$ spent on this needs to come from HIS budget- meaning eliminating other costs like cable tv, golf fees, gym membership, whatever he spends personal $ on. He could take his pick of the 3 options but must choose one. It isn’t fair that he is blowing family $ on this stuff so often- $ that rightfully belongs to the family/kids/you as well- not just him.

If he agreed that this stops NOW I’d tell him I 100% forgive him for the past $ spent, but NO MORE.

As an aside I find the whole scenario quite odd- i can’t remember the last time either DH or I had to put up $$ for anything and collect on the back end...and we socialize a fair amount and both do some volunteer work etc. We both occasionally treat friends or pick up a tab but others tend to reciprocate. And if they don’t that is fine..but these are not large $ amounts.

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